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I’m always looking for ways to keep the magic of Christmas alive now that our kids are young adults. Our youngest is in college, and our oldest lives about 3 hours away, so I try to make the most of our time when we’re all together as a family. I heard a quote a few years ago, and since then it has become something that I have become intentional about. The quote is, “Relationships are built on shared experiences.” I think this quote applies to many types of relationships, but isn’t it beautiful to think of in the context of families?
Relationships are built on shared experiences.
Where can we go together? What foods can we taste together? What games can we play together? How can we have FUN together? ‘Shared experiences’ have one thing in common, time spent together. Even when the quantity of time isn’t great, like when we are separated by distance, we can be intentional about the quality of the time spent together.

This brings me to my point of intentionally planning experiences this holiday season with our 20-something year olds and their significant others. My husband, Ken, and I are planning several things, but the one I want to share today is the white elephant advent calendar exchange we are planning for Thanksgiving. I use the term ‘white elephant’ loosely because we are really only using the rules of the game in this situation. We’re going to buy and wrap advent calendars to play a gift exchange with. Since our kids are in their young 20s, and therefore on a budget, Ken and I are going to buy all of the advent calendars. If we continue this game in years to come, we’ll up the fun-factor by asking everyone to contribute a wrapped one of their own.

Thanksgiving is the perfect time to play this game, because the advent calendars are needed before December 1st. We’re going to choose calendars that anyone would enjoy, regardless of who ends up with it. It will really be fun to see which ones are the favorites.
For now, I have rounded up sixteen of this year’s advent calendars that I think are the best. This list includes picks for young children, teens, women, and men. There are a couple of splurges, but most of them are priced $20-$25. Many of them have coupons to click before checkout, and several of them are reusable. I’m not going to share which ones off of this list that I’m buying in case one of our kids happens to read this article (unlikely), but please do come back and leave a comment if there’s one from the list that your family particularly enjoys.

- Home Alone: The Official AAAAAAdvent Calendar (reviews say this is reusable and it includes a book)
- Mattel Disney Princess Advent Calendar (reusable)
- Survival Kit Advent Calendar for Men
- Himalayan Dog Chew 24 Joyful Days Dog Advent Calendar
- Lenox Advent Calendar Tree and Ornaments (reusable, heirloom quality)
- Nativity Advent Calendar (reusable)
- ArtSkills 25 Day Christmas Craft Advent Calendar
- Wedgwood Christmas Advent Calendar (a definite splurge, but reusable/heirloom quality)
- Family Games Advent Calendar
- Madelaine Chocolate Advent Calendar
- Pukka Herbal & Tea Gift Calendar
- Bonne Maman Advent Calendar
- Lego Friends Advent Calendar,
- Lego City Advent Calendar
- National Geographic Dinosaur Advent Calendar
- Thomas Kinkade 12 Days to Christmas Puzzle




























































