Valentine’s Day: Top Hygge Gifts for Her and Him

In the dark, cold winter when Valentine’s Day arrives, it’s the perfect time to embrace the hygge experience. What is hygge? Merriam-Webster defines hygge (pronounced hoo-guh) as a cozy quality that makes a person feel content and comfortable. I don’t think there’s a better way to describe how I want the person I love to feel on Valentine’s Day than content and comfortable.

What types of hygge gifts can I give to my Valentine to make them feel content and comfortable? I’ve rounded up a few ideas to get you started. This article contains commissionable links and ads. You can find the exact hygge gifts I recommend by clicking on the links below.

Hygge gifts for Her

Ladies, take the guess work out of what your Valentine should give you for Valentine’s Day. Here are a few ideas to keep you warm and pamper you. Send him this link to give him a direction of where to start.

Hygge gifts for Him

Finding the perfect Valentine’s gift for a man is easier said than done. The stereotypical Valentine’s gifts of flowers and chocolates aren’t what men typically want to receive on Valentine’s Day. Here are a few cozy and comfortable hygge gift ideas for your man this Valentine’s Day.

When couples focus on how they want their partner to feel on Valentine’s Day, the gifts become more sincere and appreciated. Choosing hygge-type Valentine’s gifts to make your partner feel content and comfortable, warm and relaxed, or just plain cozy will express to your partner that you truly care for and love them.

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Happy Valentine’s Day!

Achieve Your New Year’s Goals: Tips for Success

Happy New Year! It’s our human nature to bookmark the chapters of our lives in terms of years. We begin today on a fresh new page for a wonderful new chapter. I prefer to set goals for myself to achieve new things, rather than to set “resolutions” to change things I don’t like. It sets a positive outlook for something new, rather than a negative outlook to change something old. Today I am sharing some common New Year’s goals. I have found that to achieve success with my goals, it is essential to set myself up for success with the necessary tools to do so.

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Goal: Travel More

A common New Year’s goal is to travel more and to explore new places. Often people have a misconception that this is something that can only be done if they have a lot of extra cash. But traveling for little to no money is something everyone can do. Last year my husband and I took five trips, and we did it for almost no cost using credit card travel rewards. Our favorite travel rewards card is THIS ONE. The rewards can be used for hotel rooms, all inclusive resorts, and airline tickets all over the world. Our next favorite travel rewards card is THIS OTHER ONE. That one covers many of the same expenses, but also things like rental cars. Want to learn more from experts on travel rewards? Check out Travel Mom Squad. It’s our favorite podcast on travel hacking, and their website is a useful resource for learning the travel points hobby. Below are a few more helpful travel things that I recommend:

Goal: Improve Health

The health of Americans has been all over the news lately. More and more people are realizing that the food we’re eating contains ingredients that are putting our health at risk. One simple solution to taking charge of our health is to cook at home. This can seem daunting and overwhelming, but it can be easily done with some preparation and planning. I stay away from recipes that have dozens of ingredients and complicated instructions. Keeping meals simple is one way to stay on track. Another thing we do is meal prepping. Once a week we make our lunches and pack them into meal prep containers. We take our lunches to work to make sure we’re: 1-eating healthy food, 2-preventing the urge to buy fast food, 3-saving money. The last thing we do to make sure we’re consuming healthy food is something that is often overlooked; we make sure the pans our food is cooked in don’t contain harmful metals or chemicals. We’ve been extremely happy with this set we use.

Goal: Increase Fitness

Moving our bodies consistently has more benefits than I can go into detail today. A few examples often given are reducing blood pressure, increasing metabolism, and helping with bone density. My favorite ways to be active are walking (both outside and on my treadmill) and resistance training with weights. I read years ago that as we get older, working out with weights becomes more and more important in order to protect our bone density. I often hear people say things like, “I don’t have money for a trainer,” or “I don’t know what to do.” I hung these exercise charts up in my workout area. The sturdy, laminated charts show examples of exercises for all of our body parts. If I see an exercise on the chart that I’m not quite sure how to do, I just look it up on YouTube for an example. Another tip I have is to anticipate excuses I might come up with, and remove the obstacles ahead of time. For example, set out your workout clothes the night before, or maybe even sleep in them. If you plan to walk outside, buy yourself a great rain jacket and spray waterproofing on your walking shoes. Don’t let a little rain stop you from getting your walk in!

Goal: Get Organized

A place for everything, and everything in its place. I’m not the first person to say it, and it’s definitely true. Living in a historic house means that we don’t have a huge pantry or closets. Even though I had already purged our belongings several times over the last few years to get rid of unneeded things, I was worried that we were going to have to get rid of even more. Instead, I began to focus on making sure the spaces we had were being used to their best potential. I bought organizational pieces that maximized the vertical space. In any space that I had on a shelf, I used racks or acrylic shelves to make sure the entire vertical space was being used. Underneath beds we are stacking flat narrow containers to hold things like off-season clothing and wrapping paper. In closets, we added 3 tier shelves to hold shoes and purses. On shelves above closet rods, we’re using more acrylic drawers and stacking the same flat containers that we use under the beds.

Goal: Financial Health and Financial Literacy

Something I am very passionate about is living debt free. I’m not exaggerating when I say that if there is one thing that I could talk to anyone about for hours, it would be finances. Money is something that has always been taboo to talk about. A lot of us were raised by a generation who didn’t teach us how to budget or invest, much less how to keep a checking account or strategically pay taxes. When our kids were in high school, we encouraged both of them to take a series of 3 classes that taught them about finance and business. Our culture has become increasingly focused on consumption, with access to every store we could ever want right on the phone in our pocket. It is really important that we educate ourselves and our families on how to live a content, full life away from the choking burden of debt. My very favorite podcast is ChooseFI. This podcast has been around for a while, and I really encourage you to go back and start at some of the earlier episodes and move forward from there. (Did you know that one of the largest groups of millionaires in the U.S. is teachers? This podcast can show you exactly how it’s done.) I have so many easy-to-read favorite books on how to live financially independent, but my top choice is A Simple Path to Wealth by JL Collins. If you don’t have time to read, listen to the audiobook. Another essential tool that I recommend is YNAB. YNAB is an app/website for budgeting. In YNAB you link all of your accounts (banking, savings, credit cards, etc) and you categorize spending and savings in real time. It gives you the freedom to spend money and also keep track of bills. One thing I love about YNAB is that each subscription can share their subscription with up to 5 people. Those 5 people can if they want to, but do NOT have to share their budgets with you. It’s completely private.

These are some of the most common New Years goals. Whether you are wanting to travel more, get healthier, increase your fitness, get organized, or find financial freedom, I hope some of these tools help you on your path to success. Take one step today and another step tomorrow. In time you will find yourself closer to your goals than you were yesterday. The important part is to keep putting one foot in front of the other. I wish you a happy, healthy New Year. As always, this is a community to share ideas. Please feel free to comment below if you have other tips that you would like to share!

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2024’s Best Books: A Personal Review

One of my goals for 2024 was to read two books each week. I didn’t quite accomplish that goal, but I did manage to read over 75 books this year. There were quite a few that I started and abandoned because I didn’t enjoy them for one reason or another. Those books are not included in my number of read books. (Who has time for bad books? Not me!) Today I am sharing my top 10 books that I read in 2024.

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In random order, here are my top 10 books that I read in 2024:

The Unmaking of June Farrow, by Adrienne Young

I read this book earlier in the year, and when I did I was already at the point where I desperately wanted to read something unpredictable, creative, and original. This book was it! From the synopsis, “In the small mountain town of Jasper, North Carolina, June Farrow is waiting for fate to find her. The Farrow women are known for their thriving flower farm—and the mysterious curse that has plagued their family line. The whole town remembers the madness that led to Susanna Farrow’s disappearance, leaving June to be raised by her grandmother and haunted by rumors.”

I think there are more layers and depth than this brief description provides, so you will have to read this one for yourself.

The Vaster Wilds, by Lauren Groff

This is truly a unique read. The main character’s voice is profoundly memorable, and I will think of this book for years to come. Several times while reading it, I thought that this would make a fantastic novel study for a high school literature class. It’s not a light read, but one that I thoroughly enjoyed. In brief, “A servant girl escapes from a colonial settlement in the wilderness. She carries nothing with her but her wits, a few possessions, and the spark of god that burns hot within her. What she finds in this terra incognita is beyond the limits of her imagination and will bend her belief in everything that her own civilization has taught her.”

This made it onto to my “Book to re-Read in the Future” list.

The Dutch House, by Ann Patchett

This is not a new release, but I just got around to reading it this year. There are several themes in this book that resonated with me. I know what it means to be in love with a house and to have strained and unconventional familial relationships. This book was a wonderful journey through someone else’s story. To summarize, “At the end of the Second World War, Cyril Conroy combines luck and a single canny investment to begin an enormous real estate empire, propelling his family from poverty to enormous wealth. His first order of business is to buy the Dutch House, a lavish estate in the suburbs outside of Philadelphia. Meant as a surprise for his wife, the house sets in motion the undoing of everyone he loves.”

How to Read a Book, by Monica Wood

An inspirational novel that touches on the power of redemption and forgiveness, and the impact literature can make on every life. This book shows how books can change lives, even those incarcerated with little exposure to reading. “When [three people] encounter each other one morning in a bookstore in Portland—Violet to buy the novel she was reading in the prison book club before her release, Harriet to choose the next title for the women who remain, and Frank to dispatch his duties as the store handyman—their lives begin to intersect in transformative ways.”

The Secret Book of Flora Lee: A Novel, by Patti Callahan Henry

I loved this book for the mystery and unique story line. It touches on the strength of sibling bonds and reminds of us of events affecting children during World War II. To sum up this wonderful story, “In the war-torn London of 1939, fourteen-year-old Hazel and five-year-old Flora are evacuated to a rural village to escape the horrors of the Second World War. Living with the kind Bridie Aberdeen and her teenage son, Harry, in a charming stone cottage along the River Thames, Hazel fills their days with walks and games to distract her young sister, including one that she creates for her sister and her sister alone—a fairy tale about a magical land, a secret place they can escape to that is all their own.”

The Book of Doors, by Gareth Brown

Imaginative. Creative. Adventurous. Well-written. I loved this book. The story is perfectly woven and the ending is wonderful. Dear Author, if you read this, PLEASE make a sequel!! From the summary, “Cassie Andrews works in a New York City bookshop, shelving books, making coffee for customers, and living an unassuming, ordinary life. Until the day one of her favorite customers—a lonely yet charming old man—dies right in front of her. Cassie is devastated. She always loved his stories, and now she has nothing to remember him by. Nothing but the last book he was reading. But this is no ordinary book…It is the Book of Doors.”

Anxious People, by Fredrik Backman

I am late to the game in reading this novel, but I’m so glad that I added it to my list in 2024. A wonderful reminder that we are all people living parallel lives with unique stories, but that our lives affect others and intersect, whether we want them to or not. We can also glean a lesson in compassion from this story. A little more about the book: “Looking at real estate isn’t usually a life-or-death situation, but an apartment open house becomes just that when a failed bank robber bursts in and takes a group of strangers hostage. The captives include a recently retired couple who relentlessly hunt down fixer-uppers to avoid the painful truth that they can’t fix their own marriage. There’s a wealthy bank director who has been too busy to care about anyone else and a young couple who are about to have their first child but can’t seem to agree on anything. Add to the mix an eighty-seven-year-old woman who has lived long enough not to be afraid of someone waving a gun in her face, a flustered but still-ready-to-make-a-deal real estate agent, and a mystery man who has locked himself in the apartment’s only bathroom, and you’ve got the worst group of hostages in the world.”

The 7 1/2 Deaths of Evelyn Hardcastle, by Stuart Turton

I would describe this book as a classy mystery. It’s a wonderful example of a well written, multi-layered plot. It’s refreshing to see a story written that doesn’t rely on cheap shock and gore to achieve success. I found this title because I read another of Stuart Turton’s books this year, The Last Murder at the End of the World, and I wanted to read more of his work. He writes truly unique stories, and I hope you’ll enjoy this one. A summary, “The 7½ Deaths of Evelyn Hardcastle is a breathlessly addictive mystery that follows one man’s race to find a killer, with an astonishing time-turning twist that means nothing and no one are quite what they seem.”

The Paris Apartment, by Lucy Foley

This book is written from rotating points of view. In doing so, the author effectively makes the reader feel sympathetic to some of the characters with less than desirable personality traits. I enjoyed the injection of Paris culture, architecture, and ambiance while reading this multi-layered mystery. “Jess needs a fresh start. She’s broke and alone, and she’s just left her job under less than ideal circumstances. Her half-brother Ben didn’t sound thrilled when she asked if she could crash with him for a bit, but he didn’t say no, and surely everything will look better from Paris. Only when she shows up – to find a very nice apartment, could Ben really have afforded this? – he’s not there.”

The Many Lives of Mama Love, by Laura Love Hardin

This is the only non-fiction book to make my top 10 list for 2024. This book is an “easy” read, but it wasn’t easy for me to read. The author discusses topics that were uncomfortable and things that I didn’t want to think about in this book. She sheds light on the realities of opioid addiction and the prison/court systems in America. While portions of this book were out of my comfort zone, I’m glad that I read it and gained compassion and understanding for the people traveling the dark journey that the author did.

If you’ve read this far you will notice that I didn’t mention what my favorite book for the year was! Based on my descriptions, I’d love to know what your guess is. Have you read any of the books on this list? Let’s chat in the comments below,

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Ultimate Stocking Stuffer Guide for 2024

Every Christmas Eve we pass a drug store when we drive to church for our candlelight service. The parking lot is always packed with people rushing to buy last-minute stocking stuffers. I’ve created some stocking stuffer gift guides to help you prepare ahead of time and avoid the manic shopping the night before Santa arrives.

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Stocking Stuffers for Men

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Stocking Stuffers for Ladies

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Stocking Stuffers for Teen Girls

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Teen Boy Stocking Stuffers

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Stocking Stuffers for Kids

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Fun Holiday Activities for Young Adults and Families

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I’m always looking for ways to keep the magic of Christmas alive now that our kids are young adults. Our youngest is in college, and our oldest lives about 3 hours away, so I try to make the most of our time when we’re all together as a family. I heard a quote a few years ago, and since then it has become something that I have become intentional about. The quote is, “Relationships are built on shared experiences.” I think this quote applies to many types of relationships, but isn’t it beautiful to think of in the context of families?

Relationships are built on shared experiences.

Where can we go together? What foods can we taste together? What games can we play together? How can we have FUN together? ‘Shared experiences’ have one thing in common, time spent together. Even when the quantity of time isn’t great, like when we are separated by distance, we can be intentional about the quality of the time spent together.

This brings me to my point of intentionally planning experiences this holiday season with our 20-something year olds and their significant others. My husband, Ken, and I are planning several things, but the one I want to share today is the white elephant advent calendar exchange we are planning for Thanksgiving. I use the term ‘white elephant’ loosely because we are really only using the rules of the game in this situation. We’re going to buy and wrap advent calendars to play a gift exchange with. Since our kids are in their young 20s, and therefore on a budget, Ken and I are going to buy all of the advent calendars. If we continue this game in years to come, we’ll up the fun-factor by asking everyone to contribute a wrapped one of their own.

Thanksgiving is the perfect time to play this game, because the advent calendars are needed before December 1st. We’re going to choose calendars that anyone would enjoy, regardless of who ends up with it. It will really be fun to see which ones are the favorites.

For now, I have rounded up sixteen of this year’s advent calendars that I think are the best. This list includes picks for young children, teens, women, and men. There are a couple of splurges, but most of them are priced $20-$25. Many of them have coupons to click before checkout, and several of them are reusable. I’m not going to share which ones off of this list that I’m buying in case one of our kids happens to read this article (unlikely), but please do come back and leave a comment if there’s one from the list that your family particularly enjoys.

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Unique Gift Ideas: Try the World Subscription Box

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Every year around this time I publish articles with gift ideas. I like to share gift ideas for people who are hard to shop for, people who have everything, and for gifts that won’t end up at the bottom of the toy bin. I absolutely love giving consumable gifts. So when Try the World reached out to me, I was genuinely excited. Try the World is a gourmet tour around the world. Recipients get gourmet products from different countries like France, Japan, or Argentina every month. There are a dozen of the best gourmet and cultural finds in each box. I know first hand how memorable a gift like this is, because back when I was a kid one of my dad’s clients gave him a year-long subscription box that came once a month. Us four kids would crowd around and get really excited to see what came in his box each month. I remember the boxes that came and the sorts of things that were inside of them, but I can’t tell you what I got in my stocking that year for Christmas. These boxes make a big impression.

A subscription to Try the World is customizable to fit your needs. You choose the box size, the frequency, and select from 50 countries that you would prefer to send or receive snacks from. It’s really that easy.

Who would this type of gift be perfect for?

  • A couple’s gift (each box can be a date night activity to open and try the treats and snacks)
  • Foodies
  • Travel Lovers
  • Kids (My elementary aged niece and nephew would love this and remember it forever, just like I did.)
  • Grandparents who don’t really need anything specific
  • College age kids love snacks (My two told me they would love to get a box each month!)
  • A gift to yourself (Treat yoself!)
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Try the World has generously given me a 20% off promo code for me to share with you. You can click HERE and use code HAPPYFALL for 20% off. Now is the perfect time to mark a person (or two) off of your holiday shopping list. I know a couple of kids who are going to be excited in a few months when their first box from Auntie Abby arrives. I hope you love it as much as I do!

(Want more gift ideas for the people who are hard to shop for or the person who already has everything? Use the search box to the right and search “gifts”!)

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1920 Lane cedar chest tall footed

Antique Lane Cedar Chest

Hi, there!

Last weekend we went antiquing in Braselton, Georgia. We’re familiar with the antique shops of Braselton, because it’s where I actually had my first antique booth in 2012. After stopping in Countryside Antiques, we drove next door to A Flea Antique. While we were there we picked up a Lane cedar chest.

1920 Lane cedar chest tall footed

I had been looking at a cedar chest in a different antique store a couple of months ago, but it wasn’t a Lane chest. I like the style of this chest, which I have learned is called a Tall Hasp with Feet, or THF. To give you an idea of the size, it measures 27″ high by 46″ wide by 19.25″ deep.

After bringing our new Lane chest home, I did some research. I learned that MOST Lane chests can be dated by the serial number on the bottom of the chest or under the lid. The serial number, read backwards, gives the production date. However, my chest only has a style number, not a serial number. I found out that some of the earlier chests did not have a serial number listed. Lane stopped their production of cedar chests in 2014, but I did contact the company to request some information.

1920 Lane cedar chest tall footed

As part of my interior design degree, I have taken several Furniture History courses. Combined with my time selling antiques, I believe this chest to be from the 1928-1940 time range. This is mainly due to the style of the feet, the bullseye rosettes used, and the floral design motif on the front.

Other than being in desperate need of some wood conditioner and wax, the chest is in great condition! The only thing I am unsure of, and asked Lane Furniture Company about, is whether the green lid is how it was originally decorated. It hasn’t been colored in recent history, but at some point it may have been refinished that way. I’m really not sure.

Here’s a look before moisturizing and waxing:

1920 Lane cedar chest tall footed

Here’s a 15 second video showing how I gave it some TLC…

After here’s an “after”…

1920 Lane cedar chest tall footed

If you’re interested in following along with more of my antiquing adventures, be sure to follow along on Instagram. Here’s a little snippet of what you’ll find us doing!

I’m not a Lane cedar chest expert, and the information that comes up on a Google search hasn’t had all of the answers that I’m looking for. If you have any information about this chest, please either send me an email or leave a comment below. I would greatly appreciate any details about this piece.

Thanksgiving tablescape inspiration

Thanksgiving Table Inspiration

We’re just over two weeks away from Thanksgiving, and I would like to share some Thanksgiving table ideas with you.

Setting a Thanksgiving table doesn’t have to be expensive. As always, you can click any of the photos in this post to find the exact items pictured in my LTK shop. However, if you’re on a budget, you can use these photos to get inspiration for a color scheme. Try finding pieces to use in basic colors that can be used in multiple ways throughout the year.

First, this tablescape with rich colors and decadent textures creates a warm ambiance for your Thanksgiving feast.

Next, basic elements are pulled together to create a warm, casual feeling.

Finally, a timeless blue and white color scheme makes for an elegant, fun holiday tablescape.

Above all, I hope your Thanksgiving is filled with love and peace with the people you hold dear.

Until next time, Abby

Thanksgiving tablescape inspiration
Christmas Running Playlist

Christmas Running Playlist

If you’ve been following along on Instagram, then you know that I decided about a month ago to set a goal of being a “runner.” I was running regularly until about 10 years ago when I got a stress fracture. Afterwards, I never got back into it. I do cardio exercise regularly, but it hasn’t been in the form of running.

Click the photo above to find this playlist on Apple Music.

I found a walking-to-running plan on Pinterest, and I thought I would give it a try. My husband and I weight train 5-6 days a week, so I would be lying if I gave the impression that I was starting from zero activity level. Even so, I have found it to be very difficult. About a month into the plan, I hit a mental wall. The plan was requiring a set number of minutes running, then a set number walking, then a different set number of minutes running, etc. I was finding that counting the minutes until I was “supposed” to start walking again (before running again, LOL) was actually making it more difficult for me.

So I’ve set the Pinterest plan to the side, and I am just working on increasing the number of minutes per day that I am able to run. I am allowing a rest day in between each run until I have more endurance. In the meantime, I’ve signed up to run a 5k on Christmas Eve. I put together a Christmas Eve running playlist to listen to while I train.

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I use Apple Music, and I will link it HERE if you want to use it as well. (Apple Music comes free with my cell phone service, sorry Spotify users.)

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Must have winter accessories

Style it Saturday, Winter Holiday Finds

Hi, friends! Welcome back to another edition of Style it Saturday! Today I am sharing some special finds that would work for the holidays and through winter. As always, you can click the photos to be taken directly to each of these outfits on my LTK.

First up is a holiday party outfit. Together these pieces make for a classic, sophisticated look. Separately, you’ll find that you can dress them up or down for countless looks.

Holiday party outfit
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Next, here is a cozy, casual look for the holidays. This would be perfect for running errands or catching a movie.

Casual winter outfit
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Finally, here are some must-have winter accessories. These classic pieces can be used year after year.

Must have winter accessories
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That’s all for today! Be sure to follow me on LTK, and never miss a deal or outfit.